Hard to believe how long ago this all started, and how complicated life can get. The past year has been hard, and work overtook, I ended up in a job that took over my life, working on average 12 hour days and from home most weekends and with a boss that was nothing short of a complete shit.
My social and personal life took a complete back shelf, but after 6 months of it I almost felt burnt out, the stress of the job, hours worked and a few other factors just took their toll, and determined not to fall in to the same trap started looking for another job.
This took a further 6 months due to notice period and the lul in the market, but here I am, back, working 9-5, no out of hours, travel time of 30 mins and loving it. Stress levels have dropped, and my personal life is starting to recover nicely.
So where does that put chastity? Well thats another thing, since getting the neosteel belt, it has give plently of time to adjust and fine tune. And over that time I found the rear cable was too long, the penis tube slightly too high, and it was a bugger to keep clean because of how enclosed the penis tube was.
Because of these problems I took to modifying the belt myself, otherwise it would be send it back to germany and wait 6 weeks plus paying what ever costs to have it modified and hope it was right on arrival, otherwise another 6 weeks to rectify.
I shortened the rear cable by 10mm, this helped alot, and with bending of the front shield managed to get the tube more comfortable, however cleaning was still an issue, so I drilled to 6mm holes in the bottom of the shield at the front.
Now I can get a cotton bud (Q-tip for our american friend) with shower gel in to the tube and wiggle around to clean, not ideal, but better.
With all the fine tuning and adjustment I found a new issue, one that I cannot change, and sending back to Neosteel will not fix it either. The waistband, it is their comfort fit, so curves at the front and back, and its at the back thats the issue. Where it drops at the back it digs in to the top of my butt cheeks, and over the period of a few days wear can hurt and leave quite strong marks.
I tried to bend the waist out slightly in these areas, but could not get past it. And through some research have found some manufactures make their belts to curve down at the front, but straight at the back becuase of this.
So what now? I have a belt that is near enough right on fit, but pushes against nerves in my butt cheeks and hurts after a few days….. where do I go from here?
Watch this space………
January 13, 2009 at 10:08 pm |
i got the same problem whit the she male total beld. i also figured out if the beld to thight to the crotsc there’s a higer presure at the back. (if you push the beld down in the crotsc its thight in the crotsc and in the back it comes up whit als result, presure points in the back.)
Now i bend the beld in the back so that it doesn’t touch the back. For the moment it feels much better but heaven’t sleep in it so cant tell how its working after some nights. sory for the bad english it isn’t my home language