Lunch with T again

Yesterday had lunch with T again, he said he had been reading my blog, and liked what I wrote, still thought I was mad, but is starting to understand why we do it.

He asked when the move to the “Full Metal Jacket” is coming, I said we were still deciding, but could see the trip to the manufacturer of choice at the end of the month.  This would mean an average 6 week delivery time, should put the belt ready by mid April.

We had a good lunch, a few beers, and good chat, T likes hearing about our adventure, shakes his head and always adds “no way would I wear a metal one….”

It sort of always reminds me of conversations with my other half, were we discuss how couples that we know well, and see how rocky their relationships are, would they be any different if chastity was involved?

There is one couple, they argue all the time, doesn’t matter were, or who is around, they always argue.  She always keeps a tight lead on him, doesn’t like him going out, has almost accused him of thinking of having an affair, and frankly its like they have no respect for each other.  Would they be any different if he was locked?

Then there is a guy that works for me, his wife… what a pain in the arse she is, she never lets him do anything that she is not involved with, if there is a staff event after work, someones leaving do, birthday, whatever, if she cannot make it in, he simply does not go.

One night the trains were screwed, we could not get out of London, I cleared it with the Finance Director for the company to pickup a hotel bill, and we would be ok, safe and sorted, his wife on the other hand was on the phone “You WILL come home, I dont care how, you WILL come home” she even wanted to drive in to London and collect us.  Accused him of lies about the trains and it actually stressed me out.  She simply does not trust him away from her.  Would she be any different if he was locked?  Makes you think.